Some good, old-fashioned, Good Gay Websites:

Single?  If so, consider PrideDating.com, a relationship-oriented gay dating site:

www.PrideDating.com Gay Dating Site

www.PrideRoommates.com International GLBT roommate service

The best question-and-answer website I’ve seen on HIV/AIDS medical and mental health issues is this one:

• http://www.thebody.com/

For great, practical workbooks that support the early steps of recovery from various substances, and are a great adjunct to therapy and to 12-Step meetings, try the following titles from Hazelden Publishers, Quitting Meth Workbook, Quitting Cocaine Workbook, and Quitting Marijuana Workbook:

• http://www.hazelden.org/

Or, if you’re not ready to quit, but want to start to deal with substances in some way, try http://www.harmreduction.org/
One of my favorite psychiatrists in LA, Stanley Harris, MD, has a virtual online treasure-trove of links.  See his website, too, at:

• http://www.stanley-harris-md.yourmd.com/