Gay Men and When It’s Time to Break Up a Relationship

Gay Men and When It’s Time to Break Up a Relationship They say, “Love is grand.”  And it is, really.  In my 29 years (in 2021) as a gay men’s specialist psychotherapist, couples therapist, sex therapist, and life/career/executive coach, I’ve worked with hundreds of gay male couples to help them improve their relationships to try … Read more

Gay Tips for “Relationship 2.0”: Should I Go Back with My Ex?

Gay Men’s Relationship Vocabulary: Partner? Husband? Hookup?

As a gay men’s specialist therapist for individuals and for gay men’s relationships for over 27 years, I notice how certain themes come up regularly.  Lately, several of my clients have presented the dilemma in their therapy of whether they should go back with an ex, and form a “Version 2.0” new/resumed relationship with them. … Read more

How Do You Know When Your Gay Relationship Is Over?

Gay Male Sexual Abuse, Incest, and Rape Survivors: Characteristics and Coping

Gay men’s therapy expert Ken Howard, LCSW, founder of, discusses the signs that could mean your gay relationship is over.