Five Ways Gay Men Can Satisfy the Paternal Instinct – Even Without Having Kids

As gay men, we all feel it from time to time.  We go to a theme park and see the seemingly benevolent young father (OK, a “DILF“).  We see the interaction between father and son, or father and daughter, and there is a pang in your heart in recognizing the fact that he has something … Read more

Gay Men’s Relationships: Ten Ways They Differ from Straight Relationships

As I think back on the past 24 years (by 2014) of providing couples counseling for gay male relationships, I sometimes get asked what the differences are that I see (in general) in gay male relationships that are (in general) different from straight relationships.  In no particular order, below, are some of my thoughts.  I … Read more