Gay Therapist Gives Tips on Gay Men Aging Gracefully: Part III: Domestically and Financially

In this third and last of my three-part series on how therapy can help gay men age gracefully, I’d like to share how therapy can help you be at your best domestically and financially.  (In Part I, we covered emotionally and physically, and in Part II , we covered socially and culturally). As a specialist … Read moreGay Therapist Gives Tips on Gay Men Aging Gracefully: Part III: Domestically and Financially

Gay Therapist Gives Tips for Gay Men Aging Gracefully: Part I: Emotionally and Physically

Part I:  Emotionally and Physically In this three-part series of blog articles, I’d like to share some of the ways that I’ve seen my gay male clients benefit from therapy in a way that most people probably don’t think about:  how therapy helps with a healthy aging.  As a specialist in LGBT affirmative therapy, and … Read moreGay Therapist Gives Tips for Gay Men Aging Gracefully: Part I: Emotionally and Physically

A Career Coach’s 9 Tips for How to Make More Money

One of the biggest questions that guys have about their careers is how to make more money.  Women wonder this, too, but my psychotherapy and coaching practice focuses on men (gay and straight) and I know more about those dynamics.  Even though there is certainly a social injustice about men, in general, getting paid more … Read moreA Career Coach’s 9 Tips for How to Make More Money

Five Work Transitions for Gay Men that Could Benefit from Career Coaching

While I do mainstream psychotherapy sessions in my office for people with depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship conflicts, and many psychological disorders, I’ve also had many requests for career coaching in the past year especially.  Many guys have friends, bosses, family, and maybe even a mentor of sorts, but career coaching fulfills something none of these … Read moreFive Work Transitions for Gay Men that Could Benefit from Career Coaching

Mastermind Groups for Gay Men: How to Take Your Career Higher

Would you like to earn more money, work in the field you want, and make steady progress until you’re at the height of your chosen career field? Most gay men (and, indeed, most people) that I know would say “yes” to all of those.  However, only some will achieve that.  In general, gay men deal … Read moreMastermind Groups for Gay Men: How to Take Your Career Higher

An Older Gay Therapist’s Advice for Younger Gay Men: 12 Tips to Improve Your Life — Now and Later

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In my private practice of psychotherapy and coaching, I enjoy working with gay men (and others) of all ages.  While I see many guys at midlife (especially for relationship or career issues), I also work with younger gay men (also for relationship and career issues!).  I admire the young guys I see, and their outlook … Read moreAn Older Gay Therapist’s Advice for Younger Gay Men: 12 Tips to Improve Your Life — Now and Later

Gay Men’s Relationship Issues: When You and Your Partner’s Incomes Differ Greatly

It would be easy if you both earned exactly the same, wouldn’t it? That doesn’t happen in real life, though, and almost every couple deals with an income gap. When the gap is large, you really have to be on your game to keep it from becoming a big and continuing problem. It’s important that … Read moreGay Men’s Relationship Issues: When You and Your Partner’s Incomes Differ Greatly

Can You Afford to Be in Therapy? Can You Afford Not To?

After being in private practice and specializing in therapy and coaching for gay men for over 21 years, I have sometimes seen clients start therapy, and then decide they “can’t afford it” – yet they pay their drug dealer weekly full-price for crystal meth.  Or they still pay $15 for a cocktail at the Abbey … Read moreCan You Afford to Be in Therapy? Can You Afford Not To?

When Pink Seeks Green: Gay Men Using Therapy and Coaching to Make More Money

One of the most persistent themes in counseling and coaching sessions in my 21 years in practice, specializing in therapy for gay men, has been guys wanting to move up in their careers, expand their self-employed business, and earn more money.  It’s just one of the factors – along with things like health, mental health, … Read moreWhen Pink Seeks Green: Gay Men Using Therapy and Coaching to Make More Money

The Top Five Money Mistakes Gay Men Make (and How to Avoid Them)

It’s a slightly awkward topic, but let’s talk about the money mistakes gay men make, and the corresponding solutions for them.  In the privacy of a confidential therapy or coaching session, guys can “let their hair down” and discuss things with me that stress them out, things that they might not want to talk about … Read moreThe Top Five Money Mistakes Gay Men Make (and How to Avoid Them)