Gay Therapist Discusses “Toxic Busy”: How Much Is Too Much for Gay Men?

"Toxic Busy": How Much Is Too Much for Gay Men?

Recently in my psychotherapy and coaching practice that has focused on gay men and gay male couples for over 26 years, a client started a session by talking about his previous week.  “How was this week?” I asked. “Oh, boy.  Lots going on.  Been busy.  Very busy.  Toxic busy!” That phrase struck me. “Toxic busy”.  … Read moreGay Therapist Discusses “Toxic Busy”: How Much Is Too Much for Gay Men?

Gay Men’s Skills of Living Series: #1 – Reclaiming Your Time

Gay Men's Skills of Living Series: #1 - Reclaiming Your Time

Gay Men’s Skills of Living Series: #1 – Reclaiming Your Time In this 10-part blog series on Gay Men’s Skills of Living, the first one, today, is about gay men and time management.  Since the beginning of this year, I’ve noticed that more of my clients are talking about positive, practical, empowering changes they want … Read moreGay Men’s Skills of Living Series: #1 – Reclaiming Your Time