
Gay Men and the “Roommate Phase”: When Your Relationship Still Works, But No Longer Feels Alive
“When did my husband become my roommate?” It is a question I sometimes hear from gay men in therapy or coaching who are in long-term
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“When did my husband become my roommate?” It is a question I sometimes hear from gay men in therapy or coaching who are in long-term

A client of mine, successful, disciplined, the kind of man who built a real career from nothing, recently told me he had started reading about

Every so often, a client asks me a question that sounds straightforward but turns out to be about something else entirely. He does not begin

Success Can Build an Extraordinary Life. It Doesn’t Always Heal an Earlier One. If you judged only from outward appearances, you might reasonably conclude that

Have you ever opened Instagram and suddenly realized everyone else seems to have been invited? Maybe it’s a quiet Saturday evening. You’re finally relaxing after

Gay Men and Self-Abandonment: The Quiet Ways We Leave Ourselves Behind For more than three decades as a psychotherapist working primarily with gay men, I’ve