Why So Many Successful Gay Men Feel Unsettled in Midlife
March 12, 2026
A man in his late forties sits across from me during an intake session. From the outside, his life looks solid. He has a successful
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Gay Men and Immediate Coping Tips for a Breakup
February 23, 2026
I’ve spent more than 30 years helping gay men navigate breakups, divorces, and relationship endings—not just as a psychotherapist and sex therapist, but as someone
Why So Many Gay Men Feel On Edge Right Now—and What Actually Helps
February 17, 2026
Living Inside a Prolonged Stress Climate Many of the gay male therapy or coaching clients I speak with lately struggle to name exactly what feels
Practical Tips for Coping With Erectile Dysfunction in Gay Men
February 9, 2026
What actually helps—beyond pills, injections, and panic Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, is a gay men’s specialist psychotherapist and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist with over 30 years
Gay Men on the Autism Spectrum: Dating, Intimacy, and Being Understood
January 30, 2026
This article comes from my work with gay men around confidence, relationships, and sexual self-understanding. If you want to see what working with me looks
Heated Rivalry: A Gay Therapist’s Take on Romance, Fetishization & Visibility
January 12, 2026
There are moments in queer cultural history when something breaks containment. A film. A series. A book. Heated Rivalry is a Canadian-produced television adaptation for
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