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(310) 339-5778

The most experienced gay men's specialist therapist in the United States today.

Gay men hire me for help to solve problems, such as in their relationships for improving communication, reducing the severity of conflicts, addressing sexual frequency or sexual performance/satisfaction concerns, receiving support for growing in their careers, enhancing their creativity and productivity, gaining self-confidence, managing the symptoms of medical, psychiatric, and psychological challenges, recovering from traumatic experiences, healing from Family of Origin or past relationship experiences, improving finances, recovering from substance issues, and improving dating/sex skills, among others in a long (32 years) career.
I am the most experienced gay men’s specialist therapist in the United States today. Using evidence-based practice methods (CBT, psychodynamic), my clients want a mature, long-term experienced and credentialed expert therapist, coach, academic, and nationally Certified Sex Therapist exclusively focused on gay men’s mental health and well-being
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Ken Howard LCSW, CST

What are you trying to achieve in your life? What challenges are you facing where you want help?

Gay men and gay male couples hire me to help them make important, lasting changes for the better in their lives, such as resolving problems in their relationships, making the most of their careers, improving mental health, enhancing your sex life, healing from traumatic experiences, coaching your finances, recovering from substance issues, expanding your dating/sex/social life, or other topics supporting your overall well-being, when you need an experienced and trusted long-time expert who “gets you” as a gay man..

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Meet Ken Howard LCSW, CST, a gay men's specialist therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist in West Hollywood/Los Angeles

(also all of California and other places via phone/webcam)

I have more experience doing therapy as a specialist in gay men than anyone else currently in the United States, with over 31 years of experience.  I can help you get relief from the life challenges, mental health struggles, stressors, and symptoms you face now. Specialities include help for depression, anxiety, OCD, ADD, PTSD, and substance use challenges. 

An LGBT-affirmative therapist, and more specifically, a gay men’s specialist therapist, is equipped to help you in ways that are deeper, more nuanced, and ultimately more effective than even the most well-meaning straight therapist can. 

There are cultural issues, socio-political dynamics, historical context, men’s psychology considerations, terminology, academic knowledge, clinical insights, and other details of “cultural competency” to work specifically with gay men that I offer, that only decades of clinical experience, writing, research, and personal perspective living with and among the LGBT community can provide.

  • Specializing in Complex Cases
  • Trained specifically as a psychiatric social worker
  • AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
  • Convenient Telehealth Services
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Therapy Services

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Individual Therapy

I provide LGBTQ+ affirmative therapy in general and affirmative therapy for gay men in particular.
I am proud to say that with over 31 years of experience, I am the most experienced gay men’s specialist therapist in the United States, and I serve gay men who are local to Los Angeles, West Hollywood, or Southern California, as well as guys all over California.
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Couples Therapy

Some of the most common issues I help gay male couples with include lack of sex, distance, and money issues.
Through couples therapy, I help gay male couples identify and evaluate their options for meaningful and sustained behavioral change that increases relationship satisfaction.
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Sex Therapy for Gay Men

I am a nationally Certified Sex Therapist by AASECT, one of the very few specialists in gay male couples with this two-year training credential.
I am proud to provide these much-needed services, as over 70 percent of even licensed psychotherapists in the U.S. receive no training in sexology.
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Case Consultation for Therapists on LGBT Issues

My colleagues nationwide often need help with their LGBT+ clients.
I provide case consultation and clinical supervision for culturally-competent, LGBT+ affirmative psychotherapy practice to my colleagues worldwide.
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Consulting for LGBTQ+ Issues in Media

Living in Los Angeles, I provide professional consultation to writers and producers of television shows and movies to accurately and affirmatively depict LGBT+ characters and situations.
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Public Speaking & Workshops

I offer public speaking, workshops, conference keynote addresses, and breakout talks locally, nationally, and globally on LGBT+, HIV/AIDS, and Diversity/Equity/Inclusion.
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See What My Clients Have To Say
Ken is a consummate professional, combining the best in common sense, practical business coaching, and a solid grounding in evidence-based psychotherapy. There are few of his ilk. I have become a better and more secure manager of my own life with his help. I recommend him to friends, particularly gay professionals who seek improved personal and interpersonal skills and business acumen. Ken wears both hats with considerable skill and warmth.
K.E., gay male corporate CEO
“Ken Howard is more than a therapist and more than a coach: he’s a consummate, caring professional who has helped me and my business through challenging personal and economic times.”
Ken E., GWM CE0, 52
“Ken is bright and motivated, and a real professional. He has build a great reputation and practice through community involvement and smart marketing, but most of all through the high quality of service that he provides.”
Stephan Roth, Principal, Stephan A. Roth Strategic Communications
“I’ve worked with Ken Howard, LCSW, in the HIV community in Los Angeles. He’s one of the most astute therapists I know here in L.A. in regard to the lives of gay men and people with HIV.”
Tony Valenzuela, Writer, community organizer
“I came to Ken because I had suddenly and unexpectedly lost my partner, John, to a massive heart attack. John had been my soulmate and the great love of my life. My grief was overwhelming and really was stopping me from living a life. Ken worked with me to find ways to both deal with my grief and to honor my late partner as well. He is very pragmatic and made some amazing statements to me that made everything crystal clear. Ken helped me in small steps to regain control of my life.”
CD, 51, GWM
“A Therapist for Everybody, Plus: Ken is a well-trained, caring, and smart therapist with a practice serving mostly professional gay men. He has provided solid, goal-centered psychotherapy (he’d call it cognitive or something, I suppose) – and is not afraid to include some business coaching in the mix. I’d recommend Ken to anyone wrestling with personal, psychological issues and the stress of running a business. This guy is good at what he does; he’s not cheap by any means, but what good shrink is? Like a lot of people, I had to shop around. I’m sticking with Ken.”
Guerogrino
“Ken has participated as a panelist at a number of City of West Hollywood events including a community forum addressing issues around Crystal Methamphetamine the annual Gay Men’s Forum. The City has been fortunate to have Ken take part at these events as he brings a great amount of expertise to the table as a therapist and coach. He is a pleasure to work with, is always very professional and is highly respected in the community.”
Corey Roskin, Social Services Specialist, City of West Hollywood
“Ken is a consummate professional who takes great pride in what he does. He is an expert in his field who, through his writings and seminars, has helped people with a wide variety of issues pertaining to life enrichment and achieving self actualization. He stays abreast of the latest industry topics and uses the tools of his trade with master precision.”
Carey A.
“I have worked with Ken for many years and find his work to be the utmost in professionalism and compassion. His work within the Los Angeles community, especially that of the LGBT community, is the hallmark of dedication. While working with Ken on many community panels, including the Los Angeles County HIV Mental Health Task Force, he has always provided a intelligence, empathy, and commitment to colleagues and clients alike. I would highly recommend him as a therapist, or in any professional endeavors.”
Jonathan Lynch, MFT
“If you are looking for a smart, intuitive, level-headed and kind therapist, then you have struck gold with Ken Howard. In a relaxed way, he gets to the heart of the matter and helps people live extraordinary lives. Whether it is a relationship that is struggling or a work or home difficulty, Ken can help you see through the fog and get to a place where you are happier and healthier. Be glad you found him.”
Casey Truffo , CEO & Founder, Therapist Leadership Institute

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